Knowledge is Power
Whether you're a first timer or just want a refresher, we've got you covered. The Learn tab is your go-to resource for all things sexual health and wellness.
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Before you start, check the expiry date. Open with your fingers, not your teeth!
A condom should have the rim facing out. Pinch the tip and squeeze out any air.
Roll it down: all the way to the base.
Add lube: water or silicone-based on the outside. Never use oil-based!
After sex, hold the base, withdraw carefully, twist to seal & bin it!
Did you know? External condoms are 98% effective when used correctly. Most failures happen from incorrect use, not product failure, so knowing this stuff genuinely matters.
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Before you start, check the expiry date. Ensure no tears, holes, or damage to the condom.
Squeeze the sides of the insertion ring together at the closed end of the condom.
Find a comfortable position to insert the condom. Gently insert the condom into the vagina like a tampon.
Push the condom as far as it will go. Make sure it is not twisted. The outer ring remains outside the vagina.
The condom is now in place. When you are ready, guide your partner into the opening of the condom with your hand so it enters correctly.
After sex, remove the condom by twisting the outer ring. Gently pull the condom out of the vagina and put it in the bin.
Internal condoms are made from nitrile, not latex, making them a great option for people with latex allergies
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Before you start, check the expiry date. Ensure no tears, holes, or damage to the dam.
Place the dam over the preferred area (eg, vulva or anus).
Add lube: water or silicone-based to the side facing the body. Never use oil-based!
Remove the dental dam from the area and put it in the bin!
Dental dams are among the most underused forms of protection. Including them in your routine is a genuine act of care for yourself and your partners.
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Reduces friction, which reduces condom breakage
Helps prevent microtears in sensitive tissues, which lowers infection risk
Water-based lube is safe with all latex condoms and most toys
Never use oil-based products with latex! Coconut oil, vaseline, and lotion all destroy latex condoms
More lube is almost always better
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If you’re having trouble finding a dental dam or they don’t fit into your budget, try this:
For each dam, you will need:
1 x condom (make sure it’s in date and it hasn’t been opened)
1 x scissors (literally the only time we will ever encourage scissors near a condom)
Now, follow these simple steps
Grab an external condom and check to make sure it’s in date and sealed
Gently open the packet and remove the condom
Using your fingers, carefully unroll the condom until fully extended
Using your scissors, cut approximately 1-2cm off the head/top of the condom (sealed end), then cut along the bottom edge (part that’s harder and thicker than the rest of the condom). You should have a condom ‘tube’ at this stage.
Finally, cut along the long side of the condom (from one opening of the tube to the other).
Voila! You should now have a flat square/rectangle that can safely be used as a dental dam!
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Silicone-based lubricant acts as a plasticiser and whenmabsorbed into the item causes swelling.
Further exposure may result in the item being very tacky/sticky to the touch. In extreme circumstances, the item might loose cohesive strength and start to fall apart.
Plasticisers work by interfering with the weak bonding between polymer chains. Factors affecting effect will be length of exposure & how good a solvent the plasticiser is for the polymer.
You should only ever use water-based lubricants, not only to ensure item longevity, but also to prevent personal exposure to plasticisers.
Know Your Protection
Use only one condom at a time! Doubling up increases the risk of breakage.
Oil destroys latex. Never substitute a good lube for coconut oil, vaseline, or lotion.
Lube can help prevent micro-tears in sensitive tissues, lowering the risk of infections.
Condoms expire! Check the date and store them away from heat and wallets
STI Basics
The Common Ones:
Chlamydia: super common, often no symptoms, easily treated with antibiotics
Gonorrhoea: similar to chlamydia, increasingly antibiotic resistant, so catch it early
Herpes: extremely common, manageable, does not define you
HIV: preventable with PrEP, undetectable = untransmittable (U=U)
Testing:
Get tested every 3-6 months if sexually active with multiple partners
Many STIs have zero symptoms. Testing is the only way to know
Free or low-cost testing is available at sexual health clinics
Got Consent?
Here are some ways to ask:
"What feels good for you?"
"Is this okay?"
"Do you want to keep going?"
"What are you comfortable with?"
Remember: consent is ongoing, enthusiastic, and can be withdrawn at any time

